Zong Ze and Li Gang were both men of great self-respect, knowing that true dignity is never begged for while kneeling. Hence, they decided to face the Jurchens in battle.
The principle applies universally; whether a man or woman, to earn the respect of others, one must rely not on coercion, lowliness, or relentless pleading, but on one's personal charm and integrity.
Empress Zheng was a woman with charm—her persistence, her forbearance, her talent, and her clarity allowed even the daft Zhao Ji to respect her greatly.
Shen Yue also respected Empress Zheng, which was why he got straight to the point, wanting to avoid any awkwardness between them.
Hearing his words, Empress Zheng smiled faintly and said gently, "There is naturally a reason. Young Master Shen, please take your seat first."
In the palace, two tables were set up. Empress Zheng invited Shen Yue to the one where Zhao Qiaoyun, Saiyue, and Talented Lady Qiao were seated.
